A friend recently invited me to debate him in an online blog, loosely on the topic of ‘atheism vs. theism.’ The entire process was very short, yet very interesting. Below I’m going to repost the exchange.
I was going to post a more lengthy summary of this, but I feel that simply reading the content above speaks for itself. There was some provoking backstory behind the above content, but I don’t know how to share it in a way that does anything but take away from the whole picture.
I leave my words as plain text and indent his posts to help differentiate. I’m also going to replace his name with [a friend] because the blog was pulled by [a firned] shortly after this exchange and I don’t think revealing who he is is helpful. (Double lines indicate the start and end of the discussion, singles separate our posts.)
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An Introduction – [Robert Kunda]
“They” say to never begin with a disclaimer. I’ve never been a very good listener, so…
I’m thrilled that [a friend] asked me to participate in this forum. I’m not entirely sure what we’re going to be discussing (1st disclaimer), but if I can infer anything from the title of the blog, we’ll be talking about theism (specifically Christian theism) and atheism—and the differences of and defenses of each respective worldview. I will take the side of Christian theism, though I don’t claim any sort of qualification to do it justice (2nd disclaimer), but I shall do my best. I’ll also try to fairly critique opposing worldviews, however unequipped I may be at that task (3rd disclaimer!).
A brief into.
My name is Robert. I am 28 years old, married with a 2-1/2 month old daughter. I spent the better part of my life (or worst part, as it were) as an atheist. It was about six years ago that I began really questioning not only what others believed, but also what I believed. (I began dating the woman who would become my wife which introduced me to a broader group of minds than my world permitted, and interacting with them opened some very interesting dialogues.)
Over the course of about two years I shifted from an atheist to a Christian theist for the following reasons (as well as others):
1. I believe that the Christian worldview, properly understood, provides the best explanation of the world in which we live, to include scientific understanding of cosmological and biological origins, the existence or morality, a sense of purpose and the human condition.
2. I believe there are good reasons to believe that the claims made in the Bible are reliable.
3. I believe there are good reasons for believing that Jesus was who he said he was (God) as well as good historical evidence for his bodily resurrection from the dead.
That’s enough for now. Note that I’m not arguing for the reasons above (in this post), merely presenting them.
You can see more of my thoughts (some may prefer less!) at my blog, Metaphysically Challenged, or more about me and my family (however poorly kept up—the site, not my family) at my personal website www.robertkunda.com. If that’s not enough punishment, you can find me on Facebook.
Thanks!
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And So It Begins – [a friend]
Unlike Robert, I was born into a christian family. I had no choice or ability to decipher the difference in truths regarding a talking snake or boy named Jack and a REALLY big beanstalk. Critical thinking develops later in life, often too late to save the person from a lifetime of guilt and allegiance to religious thought control.
As a young child I was raised within the christian belief system. So of course, I bought off on it hook, line and sinker. I have given major portions of my life to the church. I have contributed to the venomous propaganda to youth across southern California, in the name of jesus’ love.
Beyond believing (or not believing), I have also been in PAID ministry as a pastor. There are things Robert will not be able to comprehend without that experience.
Enough for now.
This should be an open discussion between Robert and myself. We should not argue or even engage in the comments. All responses/arguments should be made in a post.
Disclaimer:
I LOVE free speech and rational thought. If this becomes an irrational thinking “forum”, or either person can’t respect the others argument, we will have to end this. Also, each post should never go over 500 words.
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Where Shall We Begin? – [Robert Kunda]
I want to briefly respond to your post, [a friend], and then to perhaps start with some opening thoughts to get this going. You’ll forgive me if the post that follows isn’t formatted like a college paper or thesis, as I’m writing this pretty much on the fly with no real editing, other than my browser’s spellcheck.
I first want to correct what I see as a false assertion on your part, perhaps implicitly (and I’m not sure if intentional), that there are two sides. That of reason and rationality and that of the Christian faith. You said you were raised in a Christian home, and based on what follows, I’m assuming you think this put you at a rational disadvantage, because, as you say, often those that grow in the church don’t develop the rational skills needed to evade it (your 1st paragraph). I won’t cede that to you, if nothing more than for this reason alone—that would seem to end the argument, and in my favor no less, because obviously I, being raised outside of a religion, am obviously at a better standing to judge the reasonableness of logical claims than someone that grew up under such shackles. (I mean this obviously in jest. To be sure, would either of us engage the other if we genuinely thought the person devoid of all reason? I for one would not).
One more comment in your third paragraph, I don’t see why my participation or non-participation in paid ministry has any bearing on our discussion, and here is why (which will hopefully lead me into my real substance):
Your experiences in the church don’t seem, to me, to have any importance on the question of the truth or falsehood of Christianity’s claims. That isn’t to diminish your experiences as unimportant, but perhaps as unrelated to what I’m hoping to discuss. It’s perfectly possible that there are wretched people that go to church, that horrendous acts may be done by even the pastors in a given church, but that does not change the historical nature, be it true or false, of Jesus and if he rose from the dead or not. Both can be true or false independent of one another.
So what I’m looking for is some substantive arguments on your behalf that we can dialogue about. I won’t even pretend to know what your life was like in the church, or perhaps out of it. I would hope for a similar respect. In this day and age, sadly, many people we meet are not without their own past nightmares. So I’m looking for some common ground. If not areas of agreement, then at least areas where we at least speak the same language.
I’m really open to wherever you want to start on this. Maybe we can start with what your problems with the claims of Christianity are. (Not claims against Christians, as mentioned above, because I’m sure we might both find common ground there, at least in part.) Or perhaps begin in a fashion similar to the way I opened. What do you believe, not just what you don’t believe.
I’m all ears. And thanks for putting this together.
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NADA – [a friend]
The more I think about this blog, I realize no good can really come from it. Proof requires evidence, yet a relationship with God requires faith (a strong belief in God or in the doctrines of a religion, based on spiritual apprehension rather than proof).
Until God doesn’t require faith, he will never be real to me again.
I will end this short-lived blog with this:
Imagine there’s no Heaven
It’s easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people
Living for today
Imagine there’s no countries
It isn’t hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion too
Imagine all the people
Living life in peace
You may say that I’m a dreamer
But I’m not the only one
I hope someday you’ll join us
And the world will be as one
Imagine no possessions
I wonder if you can
No need for greed or hunger
A brotherhood of man
Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world
You may say that I’m a dreamer
But I’m not the only one
I hope someday you’ll join us
And the world will live as one
Just keep loving on people and you are okay in my eyes.
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Final Response – [Robert Kunda]
Maybe we can end on a note of agreement. If I had to accept Christianity from your definition of ‘faith,’ I’d pass as well. I’m not interested in swallowing baseless claims, either.
The point I was beginning to make was just the opposite. I have ‘faith’ in God specifically because I think there are good, reasonable, positive evidences for him. Not because I’m expected to blindly follow an idea.
Take care.
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(Note, my last comment was written in the comments field of the blog, for following that short exchange, my access was cut off and the blog deleted shortly thereafter.




