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America’s Hat Pulled Over Mouth

With transportation and digital communication, the size of the earth continues to shrink. And as more and more groups from different social, ethnic and cultural backgrounds are exposed to each other with a frequency unimaginable even a generation ago, it is becoming increasingly clear that we need now more than ever to band together in love, not divide in anger. You know, ‘love your neighbor.” I think that’s in the Bible somewhere?

So in order to be accommodating to all persons, the logical step seems to me to encourage an environment of tolerance. I don’t mean an outdated definition of tolerance like, “a permissive attitude towards those different from oneself.” No, friends, to even believe that someone’s view is such that it needs to be
tolerated rather than accepted is the height of arrogance and is the very definition of the intolerance that we must eliminate! And by any means necessary.

No, viewpoints that seek to diminish the status of others must not be tolerated. Intolerance must be stamped out
. (Note—this is not intolerance because we are seeking to encourage tolerance…) Our friendly hockey fans up north know exactly what it is I am talking aboot:

In response to a series of controversies over abortion debates on Canadian campuses, the student government of York University in Toronto has tabled an outright ban on student clubs that are opposed to abortion.

Gilary Massa, vice-president external of the York Federation of Students, said student clubs will be free to discuss abortion in student space, as long as they do it “within a pro-choice realm,” and that all clubs will be investigated to ensure compliance.

“You have to recognize that a woman has a choice over her own body,” Ms. Massa said. “We think that these pro-life, these anti-choice groups, they’re sexist in nature … The way that they speak about women who decide to have abortions is demoralizing. They call them murderers, all of them do … Is this an issue of free speech? No, this is an issue of women’s rights.”


Hopefully you noticed my sarcasm above.


Look at that last line, “Is this an issue of free speech? No, this is an issue of women’s rights.” Translation: We only value free speech when the speaker agrees with us. Though apparently, this really isn’t an issue of women’s rights either. While women obviously ought be allowed to kill their children without being criticized, a woman is not allowed to use her body to disagree with choice.

Let’s be serious for just a minute. This isn’t about the right to control one’s own body. I never heard much of a fuss over South Carolina prohibiting tattoos, nor did civil rights groups raise their needles in celebration when the ban was recently lifted.

What about alcohol? I think there are still about 20 states that have numerous “dry” counties where the sale/purchase of alcohol is not allowed. Isn’t that an autonomy issue? Where is the outcry?

And back:

Ms. Massa said the new policy would not apply to religious groups that may be opposed to abortion on doctrinal grounds. Rather, it was focused on groups, whether student or external, “whose sole purpose is to provide the anti-choice side.”

That is very kind of her to make exemptions for those “religious” people, but does anyone else see the irony in banning “anti-choice” groups? I suppose “choice” really isn’t the issue either.

This kind of thing isn’t far off in America, and in California specifically, but I wonder how long it is until it actually becomes illegal to object to abortion.

When Traditional Adultery Isn’t Convenient Enough

While driving home today my wife and I stumbled across a radio commercial that really drew our attention. The advertisement was for an online dating service similar to most of the others seen or heard advertised. This particular service has apparently found an opening in the market of online dating and has wedged itself into a peculiar niche.

The twist? Unlike E-Harmony or other dating services that seek to match up lonely singles, Ashley Madison has its marketed objective as pairing up already dating or married men and women, otherwise known as “When Monogamy Becomes Monotony.” While slime-balls in the years past had to flirt with the secretary or make inappropriate advances at the babysitter, men (and women) can now seek infidelity from the comfort of their own computer.

While I admit I am not surprised that such a site exists per se, I admit that I am rather stunned at the apparent visibility such a “business” maintains. The agency is complete with its own media page that boasts a rather large list of mentions from occasionally reputable sources, such as CNN and Dr. Phil. While I’m sure Dr. Phil might portray such a service negatively, mentioning it before such a massive audience can’t do anything but boost publicity. Apparently Ashley Madison agrees that “no publicity is bad publicity.”

While I cannot solely blame such services from existing while there is a demand in a market economy, as certainly the unfaithful play the key role, but have the persons behind this service no souls? Is there not a moment’s consideration given to encouraging a behavior that is damaging to society and can destroy lives of whole families? The answer: a resounding no.

Included in their FAQ is an incredibly demented attempt to justify and excuse just such activity:

Q: Does Ashley Madison encourage infidelity?

A: No, Ashley Madison does not encourage anyone to stray.
[Company slogan: When Monogamy Becomes Monotony]…
However if you still feel that you will seek a person other than your
partner to fill your unmet needs, then we truly believe that our
service is the best place to start.

Could the “no” be any more transparent?

Q: Doesn’t a service like Ashley Madison make it easier for people to stray?

A: Of course not…. Providing a service like ours does not make someone more likely to stray any more than increasing the availability of glassware contributes to alcoholism.


Oh really? Is anyone naive enough to think that the facilitation of a service does not make it more prevalent? This would be on par with claiming that liquor stores do not aid in the encouragement of drunkenness. While opinions on the prohibition of alcohol in the US vary, an undeniable fact is that ceasing the mass production of booze did in fact cut down on the practice.

We’re rapidly approaching a world where even maintaining a facade of virtue is unnecessary. Couched as freedom of choice infidelity is claimed righteous. It is frightening the depths of which totally depraved souls can continue to reach.

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